In just 2 days, we’ll:
Discover and pinpoint the exact blindspots (that you may not even be aware of) that may be holding you back from finally achieving your weight loss goals and helping you feel confident in your skin again.
Uncover the deeper roots of those blindspots, why you keep falling off the wagon shortly after starting a new diet or workout routine, and how it may be connected to MORE than you realize.
Develop an actionable framework specific to YOU to help you finally unveil other areas of your life where you truly feel unfulfilled in your life, the first steps to creating radical change, and experiencing the first few moments of what it feels like to create a life you are OBSESSED with.
I know exactly where you’re at right now…
Everyone sees a super-mom juggling all the things: a thriving career, raising a family, and always making it all happen.
You’re the life of the party, the glue of your family, and handling whatever life throws at you with grace.
You remember to pack all the things you might need on a trip, your calendar is your BFF and your friends always lean on you for support.
You show up every time for those you love, you coordinate busy schedules, you’re full of creative and innovative ideas, and you excel in your career.
But what others DON’T see is…
You feel like self-care is your biggest failure.
You’re so focused on everyone else you leave nothing for yourself, and it’s beginning to take its toll.
With all of your outward focus, you didn’t even realize you’d lost yourself in the process. And now, you don’t recognize the body in the mirror. There’s nothing quite like feeling.
You feel gross in your own skin.
You realize you seem so confident on the outside, but there are so many nights you lie awake wondering what the heck you’re doing.
Your life looks so put together, but really… you’re crumbling on the inside and feel like there’s no time to slow down and repair those dark places you feel the most insecure.
And so your weight goes up and down, and your negative self-talk has you hating looking in the mirror and dreading getting dressed for any occasion. It’s been so long since you’ve felt beautiful.
You’re convinced people are judging you and thinking, “Wow, she’s really let herself go” because you haven’t made it back to pre-baby weight, and your kids are way past the baby stage.
You’ve tried all the diet and fitness trends. Keto, low-carb, paleo, or programs like “75-Day Hard”- but you only end up falling flat on your face and feeling even worse than before.
It feels like you’re underachieving at every personal goal you set, and with every abandoned plan, you’re starting to feel frustrated about figuring out how to actually make it happen.
Those best-laid plans that got set to the side have been gradually affecting your decisions in every other area of your life.
Your confidence slowly begins to slip away, and you feel it in your work life, relationships, and most importantly, the voice inside your head.
You’ve found yourself keeping any goals you set or progress you potentially make quiet because you’re afraid you will fall off the wagon again.
You always have the best intentions of reaching your goals every morning, but come the end of the day, you find yourself binging all the snacks leaving you feeling frustrated with yourself and making reaching your goals feel impossible.
You notice you begin to feel extremely anxious when it comes to anything around food, whether it be a family get-together, work event, or just sitting down to eat dinner, because the stress of it all just feels too much.
You are someone who has it all together– the high-achieving career, the mom that never skips a beat when it comes to her family’s needs and schedule, and the woman who always seems to radiate confidence….
But deep down inside..
You question yourself…
If you can't control your relationship with food or actually find SUCCESS at losing the weight and achieving those goals you’ve set over and over…
When will it finally change?
When will you finally feel confident in your body and find that balance of both achieving your goals and living your life?
When will you finally get to a point of not hating your body and feeling that sense of control again?
To stop feeling like you are failing over and over again and just TIRED of struggling and starting over.
To stop wondering...
“Is this how it's always going to be?”
THIS is your wake-up call.
This is the point you will look back on in your life and know it changed EVERYTHING. This is the point you take the first step of your action plan. THIS is where you begin that journey of creating a life you’re obsessed with...I'M READY!
Hi, I’m Amber!
If you couldn't guess it, that woman I described above?
That was ME.
I know what it's like to not feel like YOU in your body. I know what it's like to feel overwhelmed, confused, and frustrated when it comes to losing weight and feel like nothing is freaking working.
See the story seems rather simple really. I was a mom doing all the things, a wife, and a woman excelling in her 18+ year career in sales and climbing the corporate ladder.
So then tell me why when I had all the things people would dream of, checked all the boxes of what I “should” have achieved in my life, and even had the house, husband, and 2.5 kids… why did I feel SO dang unhappy and unfulfilled in my life?
Just before my 40th birthday, I finally reached that moment where enough was ENOUGH. I couldn't live my life the way it was anymore. I felt as though it was the first time I took a second to look at my life and truly acknowledge how I felt and how I was holding myself back. I felt complacent at my work and felt I could do my job in my sleep. I felt burnt out as a mom and sick and tired of feeling so disappointed in myself. I was unhappy in my marriage, feeling desperate to feel the slightest ounce of confidence in myself and my body and overall just felt stuck on what my life was actually supposed to be like.
Was I actually living?
No matter what I tried, I struggled in the same areas, like confidence and feeling RIGHT in my own skin. I finally realized that in order to truly live a life that was fulfilling, I’d need to radically change my relationship with food, exercise, and even MYSELF. I wanted to live a life I was OBSESSED with. And so I made it happen.
I began moving my body and eating in a way that felt right to ME (and heck, something that I could be consistent at, goodbye fads and yoyo dieting for good) and before I knew it I got into the best shape of my life.
I took the time to really get to know myself deep down, from personal development books, going to therapy, investing in courses, alternative healing, you name it.
Then I did the scary things…
I looked at my life, and of course, my kids looking up at me… and I made the big scary leaps – I finally filed for divorce, I made the decision to leave my cushy corporate job after being a significant contributor to our family’s finances, and I took what was once a passion project to give other women struggling just like me the voice and guidance they needed, and scaled it to a full online coaching business with no guarantee it would work out other than the feeling in my gut it was what I was meant for.
But here is what did work out…
I CREATED the best version of me because I created a life I was OBSESSED with and I’m here to help you do the exact same thing!
I don't want you to wait until you turn 40 to give yourself the life you want. I want you to live that life NOW.
Maybe you don't know how? Maybe you’ve tried but you just slip back into before? You may not even fully realize where your blindspots are when it comes to taking ownership of your life.
Identifying those roadblocks is the most crucial step you can make towards radically owning your choices and curating a life you’re obsessed with. You ready to take the leap?
© 2023 AMBER SHAW